There is something I must not be getting. Why do most Gay men fanatsize about "turning" a str8 guy, Gay? What is the point to all of this? I mean, most Gay guys you talk to will tell you that they have "turned' someone Gay, even if it was for a night.
I find this hard to understand due to the fact that if you are Gay you are Gay. There was a time when you could say you're Bisexual but I think that's just one bus stop away from cum drinking central. The thing that really gets me, is the fact that these Gay men tell you these stories with pride, as if it's something to be proud of! I mean would you actually be proud of forcing someone to do something they normally wouldn't do? (because let's face it, in more instances than not, alcohol is involved and we ALL know alcohol is the DEVIL.)
Even worse some Gay men only go for str8 guys!! WTF is that all about? Then they wonder why, they basically have no love life and are always going from drama to drama. This to me sounds like a oneway ticket to sad & with living cats-ville.
Lines are always blurred when it comes to sexuality, but should they be? I mean if you can "turn" someone gay then the entire "born that way" idea goes flying out the window. This would give all those bible thumpping idiots something to rejoice about! In this day and age, I think it's time to define and basically cut the crap. Some people call it old fashioned and say that to label is to define. But I think that it's sometimes necessary to define someone, not for yourself but for other smaller minded people that don't understand what you are all about.
If you want to be "undefineable" then you will always have people questioning you and that can get pretty tiring. I mean would you always want to go into that every time you meet someone new? Why do some Gay men like to complicate their lives so much? I guess some of us, really are all about the DRAMA!