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Would You Take A Straight Pill?

Would You Take A Straight Pill?

by Aamyko 7th April 2010 12:23

Living In The Gaytrix
74% Of Gay And Bisexual Men Would Refuse A Straight Pill

 

Borrowing the concept from the science fiction film The Matrix, over 2,500 gay and bisexual men were given the choice: Take the blue pill, the story ends, and you wake up heterosexual. Or take the red pill and you remain in The Gaytrix. The statistics revealed that 3 in 4 of those surveyed would refuse to take a pill to change their sexuality.


Strange as it may seem, homosexuality was listed as a psychiatric disorder in the UK up until 1993. Whilst homosexuality has become more widely accepted, embraced and understood over the past 15 years, some people still promote the fallacy of a ‘cure’.

 

In a recent survey conducted by the free gay chat website ManCentral.com, members were asked if they would take a pill to change their sexual orientation. Lee Martin, a spokesman for the site, explained the reasons for conducting the sensitive research; “In recent years, there have been reports of members of the LGBT community seeking to ‘cure’ themselves through various religious and questionably medical means. Whilst we strongly believe that sexuality is innate, and therefore not something that can or should be ‘cured’, we felt the research would enable the LGBT community to recognise the importance of self-acceptance alongside wider social acceptance.”

 

Whilst 26% of those surveyed admitted that they would take a ‘straight pill’, if such a pill existed, almost three times as many men (74%) had no desire to alter their sexual preference and chose to reject any such ‘cure’.

 

Considering the improved attitudes towards homosexuality in today’s society, it may be assumed that younger males would be less inclined to covet heterosexuality than those who grew up in a less accepting social climates. However, males aged between 18 and 24 were the most likely to take a pill to change their orientation (37%), this gradually fell to just 13% of those aged 51 to 60.

 

Consequently, it seems that for the majority of gay and bisexual men, society bears little impact on the individual, whilst self-acceptance develops with age. On the other hand, younger males are more likely to feel anxious to conform to the norm, which may contribute to the higher percentage of 18-24 year olds willing to take a straight pill.

 

This theory is supported by the comments of several of those surveyed; one member said “I would not take a pill to change my sexuality now because I have the sense and maturity to realise that homosexuality is naturally occurring. But unfortunately when I was a young man, I am ashamed to say, I would have done anything to conform. That is because of peer pressure and religious pressure which led me to believe I was low-life because of my sexuality.” Similarly, another member (baybee_dee) argued, “I would not [take a pill] because me being straight would not be me at all, being gay is who I am and it’s taken me years to become comfort able with myself.”


The survey also found that:

  • 16% of openly gay and bisexual men admitted they would take a pill to change the sexual preference, whilst more than double the amount (38%) of closeted men would accept the altering drug.

  • Gay men were the most likely to refuse a ‘cure’ with 79% unwilling to change their sexuality; compared to 66% of bisexual men and 54% of bi-curious males.


Though 1 in 4 of the men surveyed would take a pill to become straight, the research highlights that the majority of gay, bisexual and bi-curious men have no desire to leave The Gaytrix.

 

Research:
ManCentral.com polled 2,552 members over a three day period. Detailed statistics & breakdowns available on request. Members who answered the surveys remained anonymous to ensure an honest and accurate response.

Comments

05/04/2010 20:44:27 #

Would You Take A Straight Pill?

In a recent survey conducted by the free gay dating website ManCentral.com, members were asked if they would take a pill to change their sexual orientation. The statistics revealed that 3 in 4 of those surveyed would refuse to take a pill to change their sexuality.

BizSugar.com

07/04/2010 18:14:54 #

The lingering question for me is: why would a gay or bi male change his orientation. I see many unhappy and frustrated homos out there, myself included. For me, I find the difficulty not from the lack of straight society's acceptance, but rather the sometimes bewildering conditions from within the gay community. No one wants to seem to address the problems with rampant cheating, higher rates of promiscuity, emotionally immature and unstable personalities(drama), drug use, and generally high maintenance and hard to please "men". We ARE a "special needs" bunch! The bodies are getting bigger and more butch, and the personalities are becoming more feminine(bitchy, catty, campy). I have been in and out of the community for twenty plus years and I am of the conviction that the bar scene are responsible for spoiling newly out guys. Bars are where they pick up the worst behaviors. Of course the minute I point this out, at least one defensive queen will lash out at me for being a self-hating blah-blah. Or, remind me how hard everyone had it growing up, so that the nasty behaviors are "justified" or "excusable". To that I say: bullshit. If you talk it, walk it. Be the better man, grown up, and learn to be responsible and respectful to your fellow beings. I mean most of are educated and enlightened now with all of our new-found freedoms--right? So, why haven't we learned from this? I guess I come from a time and place where men were men, gay or straight. Now, we have all these hybrids running around looking for a real man. A by product of this is the growing attraction to gay for pay and military type porn. Seems like everyone wants to have a man, but no one wants to be one. I think gays have gotten in touch with the female side a bit too much and need to balance it out---and not just on the first date. There are many guys like me out there who agree. Why are the drag queens, porn stars, and the Adam Lamberts the only ones who are allowed to define this community. Fire away...

Noah Boddy United States

08/05/2010 17:38:02 #

I might be tempted to take a pill to make me bi, but never straight.  I've always found the female form disturbing and repulsive, it would be great to be able to see it like straight men do.  But I don't want to lose the way I see men either.

As for Noah, you have been out twenty years.  Gays get bitchy when they want to get laid and nobody "hot" shows interest in them. You just wrote a very bitchy rant about how awful the gay community it.  It's time to realize that other gay men were not placed on Earth to meet your sexual desires.  

Tom United States

09/05/2010 19:02:57 #

@Noah Boddy. I sometimes also get the impression that there are more special needs types in the gay community that average, but truth be told I don't know what the average is. While flaming bitchy queens draw a lot of attention I think that the majority of the gays fly below the radar and hardly get attention at all, so the impression we get is not accurate. Another factor is that we hardly meet the straight special needs guys, because, well, we live in different worlds. Cheating, promiscuous, emotionally immature and unstable straight guy do exist. And not only marginally.

In other words: Although I sometimes get tired of evil queens I don't think that the percentage of straight high maintenance guys is lower than the percentage of gay high maintenance guys. Straight men are not better than gay men.

Peter Netherlands

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