There is something I must not be getting. Why do most Gay men fanatsize about "turning" a str8 guy, Gay? What is the point to all of this? I mean, most Gay guys you talk to will tell you that they have "turned' someone Gay, even if it was for a night.

I find this hard to understand due to the fact that if you are Gay you are Gay. There was a time when you could say you're Bisexual but I think that's just one bus stop away from cum drinking central. The thing that really gets me, is the fact that these Gay men tell you these stories with pride, as if it's something to be proud of! I mean would you actually be proud of forcing someone to do something they normally wouldn't do? (because let's face it, in more instances than not, alcohol is involved and we ALL know alcohol is the DEVIL.)

Even worse some Gay men only go for str8 guys!! WTF is that all about? Then they wonder why, they basically have no love life and are always going from drama to drama. This to me sounds like a oneway ticket to sad & with living cats-ville.

Lines are always blurred when it comes to sexuality, but should they be? I mean if you can "turn" someone gay then the entire "born that way" idea goes flying out the window. This would give all those bible thumpping idiots something to rejoice about! In this day and age, I think it's time to define and basically cut the crap. Some people call it old fashioned and say that to label is to define. But I think that it's sometimes necessary to define someone, not for yourself but for other smaller minded people that don't understand what you are all about.

If you want to be "undefineable" then you will always have people questioning you and that can get pretty tiring. I mean would you always want to go into that every time you meet someone new? Why do some Gay men like to complicate their lives so much? I guess some of us, really are all about the DRAMA!

I have had my share of sexual escapades. Some of them have been orgasmic and some of them have left me wondering: What the fuck was that? Having one night stands can be exciting, kinky and erotic or they can be awkward, messy and downright sticky. But what about when you have a partner and you  have been dating him for a week , a month, a year or even 10 years! How the fuck do you keep sex interesting, or even more important how do you KEEP IT HOT?

I have always thought that the idea of having sex with just ONE guy is kinda scary, I mean the idea of just one cock for the rest of my life was just....... HOW? There are so many hot cocks out there and I'm just gonna have to stick to one?

Well the answer to this is: YES, BUT ONLY if you keep sex hot in your relationship at ALL TIMES. And when I say at ALL TIMES, I mean it!

One of the things that I have found to be very important, is to talk about sex. I talk about sex with my partner all the time. I tell him what I love, like and hate. I also encourage him to do the same with me. I have always said that I am an open book when it comes to sex and there ain't no shame in my game. The trick is..... you gotta pick your moments. You can't tell your partner you don't want your nipples pinched when he's doing it. That just KILLS it. So talk before you have relations. Believe me, it will help you loads! (Pun intended!)

Another way of keeping things sizzlin' is, telling each other your fantasies. Cheap sex talk is not something you have to pay for. Why pay for it when you talk nasty to your partner for free! If you have the fantasy of candle wax on the nipple, or chains, whips, dips and chips, then let him know! Just don't keep shit to yourself! You may have fantasies that could turn him on and you may have some that will make his cock rocket your backdoor off!

Enjoy variety. Don't just do it in the bedroom! Nobody wants to fuck Grandpa! Dogging anyone? How about sex in the shower? Up against the wall? Over the kitchen table? Or even on the floor going at it like sex crazed rabbits! The most important thing here is: do it in a place where something is fresh and new.

Finally, make sex an event. MAKE it special. Don't just look at him and say "c'mon let's just get this over with!" Plan a night together, go out and buy sex toys,have a look at porn together, the build up will have you wanting to shoot your hot steamy load all over your partner. This is key here: build up to sex. This will drive both of you crazy!

So, if you have had a long time partner and sex is a bit..... "meh" then you betta live by these tips or else you'll be polishing yourself off for a long time! Let me know how you get on!

I have been thinking recently that there must be something in the air here in England that makes British men so HOT & HUNG!  According to a friend of mine who has had even MORE experience with Brit blokes (yeah he's a real whore!), he says it's all the tea they drink but I still don't know what tea has to do with it. Maybe tea "bags"?  I don't know but I'm slow.

In the gym, I see British guys and they are almost  ALL hung. If they aren't that good looking then it's more likely for them to have an even bigger cock! I LOVE IT! So let's hear it! For all you Brits out there, do you think you're bigger compared to the rest of the world? And what about you guys from other countries? Do you think the guys where you live are blessed with the enormo-cock-o?

Leave your comments and of course experiences about Brit cocks or if you're a more experieced Gay tell us all about international cocks!

When it comes to growing old, I pretty much have mixed feelings. Part of me wants to believe that I will be forever young and I will always look how I do now. The other part of me knows that no matter what I do and no matter how much I "take care" of myself there is no denying that: I will get old.

That idea alone is quite scary for me cos I know how I feel about the elderly right now. I was watching "The Secret Millionaire" last night and the majority of the people that end up alone and sad are usually the elderly and I just thought, after living all those years only to end up with no one giving a fuck about you and just waiting for some kind stranger to take pity on your old ass is just quite depressing. It makes me think: What's the point of being old anyway?

If you don't go the abandoned road and decided that you want to stay with the times there will always be a part of you that will be thinking: "Who am I trying to kid?" I was in the gym the other day and there was this 60 (or more) year old gay and he was just gross looking. He went into the sauna and he was just in there alone and had a raging stiffy and was just showing himself to anyone that would take the time and I felt of mix sadness and sickness. I felt sad cos we ALL have the need to get our rocks off no matter how old we are and everyone that passed by was thinking the same thing in was: Gross Old Man. I felt sick cos he was just really repulsive looking and I thought to myself does he not know what he looks like? Why would you go to a gym where 85% of the guys there are hot and you think you have a chance to get with ANY of them? I mean if you wanna hook up you gotta make an effort and at least try to look hot!

I think that we can all look sexy no matter what age but that still does not take away from the fact that getting old does kinda suck! But alas there are always hunks like this one that just prove that a 55 year old ass is just as hot as a 25 year old ass! I think I am in complete and total lust with him.

So, what are your views about growing old gay? Do we "grow old gracefully?" Or are we all bitter after 40? Opinions please.

Well, this is a nice change! WE get to see hot ruggers stripping and of course it's all for a good cause. "Checkum" is the new Macmillan Campaign to get blokes out there to check their "junk" for testicular cancer and what a better way than to feature hot naked Rugby players! I think this is a smart move cos it brings it back down to us "common folk" and it makes us realize that it can happen to just about any guy so it's time to get out there and start checking our balls!

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