I have had my share of sexual escapades. Some of them have been orgasmic and some of them have left me wondering: What the fuck was that? Having one night stands can be exciting, kinky and erotic or they can be awkward, messy and downright sticky. But what about when you have a partner and you have been dating him for a week , a month, a year or even 10 years! How the fuck do you keep sex interesting, or even more important how do you KEEP IT HOT?
I have always thought that the idea of having sex with just ONE guy is kinda scary, I mean the idea of just one cock for the rest of my life was just....... HOW? There are so many hot cocks out there and I'm just gonna have to stick to one?
Well the answer to this is: YES, BUT ONLY if you keep sex hot in your relationship at ALL TIMES. And when I say at ALL TIMES, I mean it!
One of the things that I have found to be very important, is to talk about sex. I talk about sex with my partner all the time. I tell him what I love, like and hate. I also encourage him to do the same with me. I have always said that I am an open book when it comes to sex and there ain't no shame in my game. The trick is..... you gotta pick your moments. You can't tell your partner you don't want your nipples pinched when he's doing it. That just KILLS it. So talk before you have relations. Believe me, it will help you loads! (Pun intended!)
Another way of keeping things sizzlin' is, telling each other your fantasies. Cheap sex talk is not something you have to pay for. Why pay for it when you talk nasty to your partner for free! If you have the fantasy of candle wax on the nipple, or chains, whips, dips and chips, then let him know! Just don't keep shit to yourself! You may have fantasies that could turn him on and you may have some that will make his cock rocket your backdoor off!
Enjoy variety. Don't just do it in the bedroom! Nobody wants to fuck Grandpa! Dogging anyone? How about sex in the shower? Up against the wall? Over the kitchen table? Or even on the floor going at it like sex crazed rabbits! The most important thing here is: do it in a place where something is fresh and new.
Finally, make sex an event. MAKE it special. Don't just look at him and say "c'mon let's just get this over with!" Plan a night together, go out and buy sex toys,have a look at porn together, the build up will have you wanting to shoot your hot steamy load all over your partner. This is key here: build up to sex. This will drive both of you crazy!
So, if you have had a long time partner and sex is a bit..... "meh" then you betta live by these tips or else you'll be polishing yourself off for a long time! Let me know how you get on!