I would like to believe that there are people that you get along with more than others and they might make great friends and maybe great lovers. I have met plenty of guys that have ticked a lot of the boxes but for some reason or another it just didn't work out, that leads me to believe that maybe I didn't tick any of their boxes.

So what are you supposed to do until you find someone that you don't want to slap or roll your eyes at every they open their mouth? Well, it's no big secret: DATE! Yes, this is what you have to do. Date your ass off! Now, I can hear most of you saying: What BIG fucking news! But I can tell you why it is so important for us Gays to date. I have a little theory.

When we were growing up most of us didn't have to opportunity to openly date other guys, bring them home to meet the parents, go to prom with them and do all the things that you are supposed to do in that "dating stage" of life, so we miss ou

t on all of it and then we expect to find a relationship?  NO.

So, we have a lot of catching up to do. I mean even when you're in college some of us are still having trouble coming to terms with our sexuality and we go through that "BISEXUAL" phase which basically means "full fledged fag" and then when we finish college most are none the wiser in terms of sexuality.

So when we get out into the big, bad world we have to take matters into our own hands and do A LOT of catching up on our dating for all the years we didn't go out to dinner or to a movie with a guy that you might have more in common with than the fact that both of you like cock. This is something that most of us fail to understand when we are young. So we end up with the wrong kinda guys because we think: "well, he's the only openly Gay guy I know at the moment so let's give it a go." NO. 

Play the field, put yourself out there and be ready for a lotta heartbreak, tears, confusion, happiness, pleasure, emotional highs (& lows) and little by little you'll be able to see who YOU really are and what YOU really want out of a relationship or if you even want a relationship!

When it comes to growing old, I pretty much have mixed feelings. Part of me wants to believe that I will be forever young and I will always look how I do now. The other part of me knows that no matter what I do and no matter how much I "take care" of myself there is no denying that: I will get old.

That idea alone is quite scary for me cos I know how I feel about the elderly right now. I was watching "The Secret Millionaire" last night and the majority of the people that end up alone and sad are usually the elderly and I just thought, after living all those years only to end up with no one giving a fuck about you and just waiting for some kind stranger to take pity on your old ass is just quite depressing. It makes me think: What's the point of being old anyway?

If you don't go the abandoned road and decided that you want to stay with the times there will always be a part of you that will be thinking: "Who am I trying to kid?" I was in the gym the other day and there was this 60 (or more) year old gay and he was just gross looking. He went into the sauna and he was just in there alone and had a raging stiffy and was just showing himself to anyone that would take the time and I felt of mix sadness and sickness. I felt sad cos we ALL have the need to get our rocks off no matter how old we are and everyone that passed by was thinking the same thing in was: Gross Old Man. I felt sick cos he was just really repulsive looking and I thought to myself does he not know what he looks like? Why would you go to a gym where 85% of the guys there are hot and you think you have a chance to get with ANY of them? I mean if you wanna hook up you gotta make an effort and at least try to look hot!

I think that we can all look sexy no matter what age but that still does not take away from the fact that getting old does kinda suck! But alas there are always hunks like this one that just prove that a 55 year old ass is just as hot as a 25 year old ass! I think I am in complete and total lust with him.

So, what are your views about growing old gay? Do we "grow old gracefully?" Or are we all bitter after 40? Opinions please.

Well, this is a nice change! WE get to see hot ruggers stripping and of course it's all for a good cause. "Checkum" is the new Macmillan Campaign to get blokes out there to check their "junk" for testicular cancer and what a better way than to feature hot naked Rugby players! I think this is a smart move cos it brings it back down to us "common folk" and it makes us realize that it can happen to just about any guy so it's time to get out there and start checking our balls!

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