Say My Name, B!@tch

50% of Gay and Bisexual Men Think About Someone Else During Sex

Sex, a shag, banging, doing it, getting intimate or making love…whatever you want to call it, when you are alone with a partner, there really should be only one person on your mind. But, according to a recent study by ManCentral.com, half of us admit to thinking about someone else during those intimate moments.

Over 3,000 members of the free gay dating website were asked if they ever thought about someone else during a sexual encounter, surprisingly, the results indicated an astonishing 50/50 split. Of those that admitted to a wandering mind, 25% thought about a neighbour, friend or aquaintance, 12% thought of a secret “fuck-buddy”, 8% imagined a celebrity whilst 5% conjured up the image of their favourite porn star.

The study also found that gay men are less likely to mind-cheat than bisexual and curious men. Whilst 45% of gay men said they had thought of someone other than their partner during sex, 59% of bisexual men and 61% of bi-curious men admitted to having an active imagination. Though the statistics indicate that bisexual and bi-curious men are more likely to have wandering minds, it may also suggest that they are fantasizing about men when they are alone with a woman.

Similarly, openly gay or bisexual were the least likely (46%) to use their imagination during those special moments with their partner, compared to 59% of closet men.

A spokesman for ManCentral said; “Whether inside or outside of a relationship, the vast majority of people will hold a sexual fantasy to some degree. In the case of this study, the thought of a celebrity or porn star is a fantasy which will ultimately remain just that, thus the excitement or thrill is gained from an unobtainable lust which is essentially harmless to any relationship.”

“Though a neighbour, friend or colleague may present a more probable threat to a relationship than a celebrity or porn star, the pleasure of the fantasy is once again achieved through the sense of forbidden or unachievable indulgence.”

Fortunately, “Say my name” is up there with “Was it good for you?” in the cringe-worthy sex sayings league, but if your thoughts do turn to someone other than your partner, just make sure you say the right name.

Living In The Gaytrix
74% Of Gay And Bisexual Men Would Refuse A Straight Pill

Borrowing the concept from the science fiction film The Matrix, over 2,500 gay and bisexual men were given the choice: Take the blue pill, the story ends, and you wake up heterosexual. Or take the red pill and you remain in The Gaytrix. The statistics revealed that 3 in 4 of those surveyed would refuse to take a pill to change their sexuality.

Strange as it may seem, homosexuality was listed as a psychiatric disorder in the UK up until 1993. Whilst homosexuality has become more widely accepted, embraced and understood over the past 15 years, some people still promote the fallacy of a ‘cure’.

In a recent survey conducted by the free gay chat website ManCentral.com, members were asked if they would take a pill to change their sexual orientation. Lee Martin, a spokesman for the site, explained the reasons for conducting the sensitive research; “In recent years, there have been reports of members of the LGBT community seeking to ‘cure’ themselves through various religious and questionably medical means. Whilst we strongly believe that sexuality is innate, and therefore not something that can or should be ‘cured’, we felt the research would enable the LGBT community to recognise the importance of self-acceptance alongside wider social acceptance.”

Whilst 26% of those surveyed admitted that they would take a ‘straight pill’, if such a pill existed, almost three times as many men (74%) had no desire to alter their sexual preference and chose to reject any such ‘cure’.

Considering the improved attitudes towards homosexuality in today’s society, it may be assumed that younger males would be less inclined to covet heterosexuality than those who grew up in a less accepting social climates. However, males aged between 18 and 24 were the most likely to take a pill to change their orientation (37%), this gradually fell to just 13% of those aged 51 to 60.

Consequently, it seems that for the majority of gay and bisexual men, society bears little impact on the individual, whilst self-acceptance develops with age. On the other hand, younger males are more likely to feel anxious to conform to the norm, which may contribute to the higher percentage of 18-24 year olds willing to take a straight pill.

This theory is supported by the comments of several of those surveyed; one member said “I would not take a pill to change my sexuality now because I have the sense and maturity to realise that homosexuality is naturally occurring. But unfortunately when I was a young man, I am ashamed to say, I would have done anything to conform. That is because of peer pressure and religious pressure which led me to believe I was low-life because of my sexuality.” Similarly, another member (baybee_dee) argued, “I would not [take a pill] because me being straight would not be me at all, being gay is who I am and it’s taken me years to become comfort able with myself.”

The survey also found that:

• 16% of openly gay and bisexual men admitted they would take a pill to change the sexual preference, whilst more than double the amount (38%) of closeted men would accept the altering drug.

• Gay men were the most likely to refuse a ‘cure’ with 79% unwilling to change their sexuality; compared to 66% of bisexual men and 54% of bi-curious males.

Though 1 in 4 of the men surveyed would take a pill to become straight, the research highlights that the majority of gay, bisexual and bi-curious men have no desire to leave The Gaytrix.

Research:
ManCentral.com polled 2,552 members over a three day period. Detailed statistics & breakdowns available on request. Members who answered the surveys remained anonymous to ensure an honest and accurate response.

I'm The Only Gay In The Village

54% of Gay And Bisexual Men Reject The 'Gay' Label

Modern society seems intent on labelling and defining everything and everyone. Whether it be chavs and emos, metrosexuals and fag-hags, scene queens and bears there seems to be a term to describe everyone. However, a new study reveals that 54% of gay and bisexual men don't like to be labelled as 'Gay' at all.

Free gay chat website, ManCentral.com surveyed over 3,500 members to find out how they chose to identify themselves in terms of their sexuality. 20% of the members opted for the rather clinical term of 'homosexual', whilst 15% preferred to consider themselves as a man who happened to have sex with men. A further 18% rejected any form of label, reporting that they did not define themselves by their sexuality. Nevertheless, 1% embraced the labelling culture by identifying themselves as twinks, bears, scene-queens and so forth.

The identifying terms 'Gay' and 'Bisexual' are most widely accepted by younger men, with 51% of 18-24 year olds identifying with these labels. However, this steadily decreased to just 41% of those aged 51-60. The reverse trend appears with the label 'man who has sex with men'. Men aged 61 and above were the most likely (17%) to describe themselves as 'men who have sex with men' whilst those aged 18-24 were the least likely to identify with this term.

Interestingly, though the younger respondents were the most likely to label themselves as Gay or Bisexual, they were also the most likely (20%) to refuse any label at all.

Arguably, labels are often attached to a stereotype, but it appears that if the shoe fits - we'll wear it:

• Bi-curious men were almost 3 times more likely than gay men to define themselves as a man who has sex with men.

• Closet men were the most likely (22%) to describe themselves as men who have sex with men, however they were also the most likely (51%) to opt for the label of gay or bisexual.

• Very slim lads were the most likely (8%) to describe themselves as Twinks. While hairy men were the most likely (3%) to be described as bears.

• Ginger guys are the most likely (3%) to describe themselves as twinks, bears and scene-queens – surely any label is better than the playground jibes of carrot top and ginger pubes.

Whilst the majority of members chose to define themselves with a label other than gay or bisexual, 46% openly accepted the common place terms. Nevertheless, there are currently no plans to open the “Man Who Has Sex With Men Bar” in Soho, nor are there rumours of adding more letters to the LGBT acronym.

Research:

ManCentral.com polled 3,628 members over a three day period. Detailed statistics & breakdowns available on request. Members who answered the surveys remained anonymous to ensure an honest and accurate response.

Brains vs. Beauty, Which Wins?

When it comes to the dating game there is always a battle between brains and beauty, but 67% of gay men would choose a partner with personality over appearance and intelligence.

Wash-board abs, perfect smile, hair meticulously styled, impeccable sense of style, and not a stray hair in sight – but gay and bisexual men have learnt never to judge a book by it’s cover. Though the average gay man is often thought to be as deep as a puddle results from a new survey reveal that for the majority of gay and bisexual men personality is paramount when dating.

Free gay dating and chat website ManCentral.com asked its members what was most important to them when looking for a date or relationship. 67% of those survey ed said that personality was the most important attribute in a potential partner.

In contrast, only 28% relied solely on appearance, whilst intelligence would impress only 6% of those surveyed.

However, personal preferences were significantly affected by age. Those aged 18-24 were the most likely to value appearance above intelligence and personality. 34% of 18 to 24 year olds said appearance was the most important factor, far higher than the 28% average. The importance of appearance steadily declined until it reached just 11% for those aged 61 and above.

Similarly, those aged 61 and above were most likely to rate personality as the most important factor in a new partner. 77% of those aged 61 and above said that personality was the most important attribute, 10% higher than the average. This gradually declined to 61% of those aged 18-24.

Predictably, those looking for sex were the most likely to place emphasis on appearance, whilst those looking for friendship were most likely to look for a partner with personality. Strangely, intelligence was also most highly regarded by those looking for sex – presumably Darwin’s Theory of Evolution is some form of foreplay.

So if you’re struggling to find a date for Valentine’s Day, chances are you are as dull as dishwater.

Additional information:
Man Central surveys are extremely detailed, incorporating information about its respondents as detailed as facial hair and weight, allowing us to unearth the following strange facts:

• Closet men (34%) were more likely than out (24%) men to choose appearance over intelligence and personality.

• Gay men (69%) were more likely than Bi-curious men (57%) to choose personality over looks.

• Men with small tools were the most likely choose intelligence and personality rather than appearance.

• Men lacking in the looks department should venture into Bristol where only 12% of respondents thought appearance was most important. Whilst Harrow is a haven for those who fall short in the personality stakes where only a quarter of men would choose personality over all else.

Research:
ManCentral.com polled 2,879 members over a three day period. Detailed statistics & breakdowns available on request. Members who answered the surveys remained anonymous to ensure an honest and accurate response.